Saturday, January 31, 2009

The Temples in Johor I've seen recently

Time during Chinese new year is reserved for visiting temples

Shi Ba Luo Han temple, Semerah


Da Bou Gong temple, Samchun


Chong Long Gong temple, Segenting


All temples are located near Batu Pahat. There's so many people there around Chinese new year. It's hot, humid and everyone is burning incense. So, if you want to experience pure Chinese temple culture, go for it. But if you're a peace-seeking person, skip now and return in 2 weeks after the Chinese new year festivities are over (or just look at my photos).

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Chinese new year is here! 恭喜发财!

Happy Chinese new year! That's what I wish to all Chinese people and that's what I've been hearing all the time lately. I barely have time to go online, because we're going visiting relatives every day, going to some temples, meeting with friends and late in the evening playing majong until the early morning. Everyone is so excited and happy.
I learned many new things about Chinese culture during these days:

1 The reunion dinner: It's 1 day before the New year. Every sister and their boyfriends or husbands came. We all wore something red and eat the famous 'steam boat'. It was fun.
2 Visiting the relatives: This part is interesting, because you see how important are family ties in Chinese culture. You get to know so many people, distant cousins, uncles, who come from various places just to go and visit grandma. First day of visiting everyone must gather at the oldest living relative's house, in this case grandma's house.
3 Chinese new year songs: You hear them everywhere! They have a catchy melody.
4 Oranges: Everytime you come to somebodie's house, bring 2 oranges, it's a custom. If not you're in trouble.
5 Tings that bring good luck: Hong bao (money in red packages), red colour, touching a particoular fish, oranges... many many things.
6 Mahjong (Ma jiang): Chinese people love to play it during Chinese new year, they like to gamble as well, but luckily just for small amounts of money.
7 Eating extensively: Food is abundant. I think I will gain some weight! :)

So, I will be full of impressions during this Chinese new year. It is a unique experience for me and I will update you all on the things ahead. We're just half way thru. Chinese new year is celabrated 15 days!

Saturday, January 24, 2009

Encounter with a Chinese hairstylist

Today I went to a hair salon in Batu Pahat. All the hairstylist were Chinese guys. The boss was over 40 and fluent in English. Since I haven't cut my hair for 2 months, it grew a bit too long. So I told them, I want my hair about 2cm long or about 2 fingers long. I said it in English and the guy nodded. To be sure, I asked my girlfriend to tell him in Chinese, he listened and nodded as well.

The guy looked like a korean boy band singer, totally metro, the front part of his hair covered his left eye. When he began to cut, I already had a bad feeling. They way he cut my hair, I've never seen something like that! He put a pin in my hair and cut underneath, like 20 times. My inner self already shook his head... But I kept smiling and hoped that he will finally cut my hair 2/3rds shorter. But I was wrong. He cut such tiny portions of my hair, so I asked my friend, please tell him in Chinese that I want my hair much shorter. She told him and he replied: Don't worry, it will be much shorter. Well... He cut about 30min already, I boiled inside... But... he just didn't cut as short as I want. So after 30min cutting off snippets of my hair, I decided to smile and say: It's ok. While I thought that's it, he put some gel on top, which is fine to me. But to my big surprise, he made me a fauxhawk! I was like WTF? But as pissed I was, I just smiled and said: Nice! I had a feeling he will put a cherry on top of the cake.

Well, one more thing happened. As I was paying, the boss told my girlfriend in Chinese, that unlike other Western people, whom he cut the hair, my hair was very clean. How judgmental and prejudiced! It supposed to be a compliment, or what? It sounded racist to me. What if I replied to him: Your hair salon is surprisingly fragrant and all of your hairstylists are clean as well unlike other Chinese. Would that be a compliment? I'm sure it wouldn't be.

So, as soon as I came out of this horrible place, I flattened my fauxhawk and said to my girlfriend: This was crazy! Now I have to go elsewhere and fix my hair again.

Friday, January 23, 2009

My grandpa's funeral

Today was my grandpa's funeral. I couldn't attend, since I'm in Malaysia. He's ash now. May he rest in peace and may the memory of him be kept alive for a long time. I'll try my best. Will be quite unusual to return home and see that everything's changed. But we must face the unavoidable.

Good luck, grandpa. I hope you have finally found the peace you sought all your life.

Nino

天坛大佛和我

The Tian Tan Buddha on Lantau island in Hong Kong is an impressive 34m tall bronze statue on top of a hill. In Wikipedia they say: »The Tian Tan Buddha appears serene and dignified. His right hand is raised, representing the removal of affliction. His left hand rests on his lap in a gesture of giving dhana. The Buddha faces north, which is unique among the great Buddha statues, as all others face south.«
But what struck me most about this, is the sheer greatness which is seen, it's impressive in size, but it's so humble at the same time. It feels as if you find your inner peace when you are below the Buddha, he gives you confidence that things will eventually be alright. That the disharmony of the bustle and hustle of Hong Kong, or any other chaotic megacity in that sense, will be again restored in harmony between the nature and the mind, between the momentary and eternal.


[Sources: Photo by MKL and Wikipedia]

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

The 44th President of the United States

So, there he is. The new president with the new first lady. The inauguration is over, people are relieved that W is history now. He won't call the shots anymore. New pragmatism, new progressive approach - that's what we need now. The world needs America as a role model, not as a world bully. Please, mr. President, make this world a bit of a better place. We'll see what will change in 4 years. Good luck!


[Photo: HuffPost]

Monday, January 19, 2009

Hong Kong: City of lights and skyscrapers

I'm back from Hong Kong (香港). It was a 5 days trip with my girlfriend and it was a unique experience. It was unlike anything I saw before. Hong Kong is the real Far east. If you want density, all kinds of pleasant and unpleasant smells, all kinds of food, modern skyscrapers among old run-down buildings, then you're at the right place.

We flew from Singapore on the 14th January at around 15h and arrived at the Hong Kong airport 3 hours later, it was already sunset when we reached there. The airport is located about 25min away from the Central MTR station. We bought the famous 'Octopus card' at the airport for about 30eur (you get 5eur refund later) and you can use the card 3 full days (72h) to travel everywhere with the MTR trains (Mass Transit Railway), plus 2 rides with the airport express train from the HK airport to HK Central and back are included. First you pay a little more, but you actually save a lot, if you plan on exploring the city. It's definitely worth it.
We arrived at the HK Central MTR station around 19h. There we transfered to another train to Kowloon, to the Yaumatei station. The train was so full, that the door hardly closed. Luckily it was only a 3 stations ride. When we came out of the subway, we saw this (see photo on the left): Nathan road. It's Hong Kong's busiest road, stretched many kilometers, covered by 4 MTR stations (Tsim sha Tsui, Jordan, Yaumatei and Mongkok). It's full of shops and restaurants, shopping malls and markets. I recommend Jordan night market, Mongkok night market and Ladies' street, also in Mongkok.
But Ladies' street was a disappointment for me, I prefer the Tung Choi street in Mongkok. Friday to sunday they close the road and pedestrians are all over the place. You have all kinds of things to shop: bags, souvenirs, fake Rolexes, gadgets, computers, whatever...
Just be careful when bargaining, the people are quite tough. I saw some western people how the bought a fake bag for maybe 10% discount. When I bargain, I beat down the price at least 70%, if not I don't buy. And it works. If they don't give you your price, go on, either they'll come after you and give you your price or you find someone else with the same thing and start over. Sooner or later you will be lucky. Don't buy too fast.
Well, the first day was quite cold, and it was dark already around 19h. We were so lost while walking along Nathan road. A friend recommended us the Evergreen hotel, so we kept asking people about the hotel, but nobody knew. It supposed to be near Nathan road. Well, we wandered around more than an hour, because we were so amazed by the lights and the buildings, so we forgot the time. We snapped many photos. Finally my girlfriend's friend texted us the name of the street and somehow we found the hotel. Funny was, we been so close to the hotel already, yet we turned around and went back... so we wasted a lot of time there, but that's just part of a big city adventure, right? Once we checked in (hotel cost 30eur per person per night, a bit more than we planned), we unpacked, washed up and I somehow convinced my girl friend to go out and see Hong Kong's night skyline. It was worth to go out!
The second day was full of adventure as well. We started with going to the Central, where we walked around, snapped many photos of the highrise buildings. We also went to the piers and then slowly back to the station. The most important destination of the day was the Tian Tan Buddha on Lantau island (located on the same island is also the HK international airport) it's 30min away by train, but with the regular MTR train, not the Airport express. One station before is the Disneyland. We skipped it, because we're not into this so much. The station we were headed was Tung Chung. It has a big shopping mall where you have many outlet stores, so if you're shopping for brands like Nike or Puma, it's much cheaper there.
Well, the best way to see the big Buddha is by sky train. If you're afraid of heights, better take a bus or cab, if not, take the sky train! It's a unique experience, it costs about 10eur (return ticket, per person). The ride is about 25min, you rise above the sea and mountains and you see the whole airport and the beautiful nature of the Lantau island. Even though I felt a bit unwell at first, I didn't regret to take the sky train.
My girlfriend was just the opposite, she was so into it at first, when inside, she suddenly felt unwell and didn't want to look down. Anyway, she got rewarded by the marvellous 34m tall bronze Tian Tan Buddha on the top of the hill. It's unbelievably amazing. When you alight the train, there's a small village-place for tourists with restaurants and souvenir shops. I bought me some funny souvenirs, one of which was a photo of chairman Mao supposedly bringing you good luck. Usually these souvenirs have Buddha or some other diety. Weird, but funny. Well, once you reach the Tian Tan Buddha, 5 min by foot, there's a lot of tourists, all snapping photos like crazy. There's a stairway leading up. Once you reach there, you see the whole majesty of this sculpture. It's breathtaking. And the view as well... I snapped many photos from all corners. But I realized, you can't fully grasp this Buddha on photos, you have to see it in real. It's a must if you visit Hong Kong.
We returned back around 19h and we went to the Avenue of Stars, it's the most southern tip of Kowloon, the one facing the marvellous Hong Kong skyline. Every day at 20h, they have a laser and light show from the most famous Hong Kong's skyscrapers. The show is backed up with music. It was nice and also full of people. This place is something like the Hollywood Walk of fame in Los Angeles, just that it keeps the fingerprints of the stars of Hong Kong cinema, like Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan, Andy Lau, Jet Li, Michelle Yeoh, Stephen Chow, Gong Li and Cecilia Cheung, to name the most famous.
The next day, I thought, since we bought the Octopus card, let's go and take many rides and try to see some temples. So we stopped at some MTR stations that had a temple near by. I recommend you Diamond hill. There's the beautiful Chi Lin Nunnery, a complex of many temples and gardens, clean and peaceful. We reached there in the morning, there was no tourist around. It's definitely a treasure.
After seeing 2 temples, we reached the Central, we made a huge circle from central kowloon to eastern Kowloon, to the eastern Hong Kong and back to the western part, where the entral is located. We went out at night, walked around. There was many western people in clubs and pubs, but we returned back home to the hotel.
For the next two nights we transfered to another hotel which cost us about 17eur per person. The room was small, a double bed and a toilet, small useless window and a TV. But it was nice and clean. It was in Mongkok and recommended by one of my girlfriend's colleagues, who happened to be in Hong Kong in that day, but she was deprating the next day. We had 2 more days. We saved quite some money, which we later spent on souveniers and some clothes and a bag.
After going to so many places, the next 2 days we just took it easy, we stayed in Mongkok a lot, went to eat and shop there, slept longer. We were exhausted! So when we packed all the things for the check out, I suggested to go to the Victoria peak. It's one of the top destinations in Hong Kong, every tourist must go there. We had a whole afternoon to spend, the flight back was at 2020. We checked out at 12h, it wasn't a warm goodbye from the auntie in charge. And we took the train to Central, walked outside, followed the signposts for the Peak tram.
It was so hot the last day and sunny, must be almost 20 degrees Celsius. First day was only 11. Well, it was pretty hard to walk uphill with a 12kg rucksack on my back and my girlfriend's shopping bag. But we made it. The legs hurt like hell, the tram was full of tourists and the ride was bumpy (it cost 3.3eur per person). First time I went uphill with a train. Marvellous. On top I snapped some photos of the beautiful Hong Kong skyline. It's really breathtaking, a scenery full of skyscrapers. I guess only New York can keep up with Hong kong in that regard.
It was a great image for the end of this trip, I will always hold and treasure it.

Who knows how many times I will have the chance to return to this beautiful city. Maybe never again.
But I can always proudly say, I've been there, I saw almost everything and I can advise you. Even though it was only 5 days, Hong Kong is easy to grasp, easy to get the orientation and the feel of the city. I would gladly stay for a longer period in Hong Kong. I could stay up to 90 days, if I had the cash. Maybe one day... Maybe... Goodbye, Hong Kong...

[All photos by MKL, 2009]

Saturday, January 17, 2009

My grandpa died

My grandfather died in the age of 77 due to pneumonia. He wasn't a perfect man, he wasn't a man of warm words and a kindness that I saw in other people's grandfathers. But at last, he showed some fondness towards my mum, my sisters and me. He was a part of my life, because he was always there. But we didn't really know him, he didn't really know us. There was always a wall between us. In the time when he was in hospital, so I was told, this wall began to crumble. But there was no time to tear down the wall completely. It was too late, he was taken away from us. I got the note from my sister while I was in Hong Kong. That was tough. I wished I could see him in hospital, say something like 'goodbye' to him. It just wasn't meant to be. I would just want to let him know: I liked him, despite sometimes saying otherwise in anger. I liked him and I'll miss him.

May he Rest In Peace.

Sunday, January 11, 2009

Life is a journey

In 2 days I'm going to Hong Kong... I'm excited, but at same time a little nervous. It's my first time there, it's a big city. I mean how many global cities are so breath-taking and important like Hong Kong? New York, Chicago, London, Paris, Tokyo, Shanghai to name few... I just can't wait to see the unique Hong Kong skyline! I guess when you see it for the first time, you must take a deep breath, before you can fully grasp it.
So anyway, I will be flying again... Planes - I can't without them. I will be flying for the 16th time I think. It really makes me feel I'm always on the move, always traveling, never arriving to where I wanna be. My life is a big journey. I don't know if I will ever settle down somewhere and stay rooted. I will always be on the move. And if I have grandchildren one day, be sure, grandpa will have many stories to tell :-)
[Photo by MKL, 2009]

Saturday, January 10, 2009

KTV in Batu Pahat

Let me introduce you Malaysian karaoke


Few days ago, I've been to a KTV (aka karaoke TV) for the first time. It was a friend's birthday party. When I entered, I saw a group of people, maybe 20 or more, in a room with a big TV and a long couch with few tables. There's even a small toilet and a pool table. You have your own waiters, all dressed in black, going in and out, serving you. Meanwhile the people on the side were playing pool, some on the other side were chatting, while the ones in the centre were singing chinese songs. I think KTV can be fun, but I think if you go with people you know. And the group has to be smaller and you better have few drinks before you start singing. I'm sure it's possible to have fun... because this party wasn't fun for me... But most the important thing was to wish the friend happy birthday.

TV screen at a Batu Pahat KTV lounge.

Thursday, January 8, 2009

»Welcome to Malaysia!«

Today, I decided to go for a walk again. I went for a 15 min walk to the nearest shopping mall. On my way there, while slowly walking between the houses, I suddenly heard someone say: ''Welcome to Malaysia!" I kept on walking and said: ''Thank you.'' I didn't know where it came from, until I saw someone leaning on the fence of the house I just passed by and starting a conversation with me. It was a young Malay man, asking me all kinds of questions in English, like where I was from, what was my name, where I was headed... People in Malaysia are very friendly and it wasn't the first time somebody started a conversation with me. So I am not surprised when something like that happens. Anyway, he said he hoped to see me again. I said ''yes, see you''. But the thing is... I seldom walk that way, so I doubt I will meet him again. But you never know.

Wednesday, January 7, 2009

Kaya and jasmine tea in Batu Pahat

A simple Malaysian snack


Today, after 1 week of being sick, I finally went out. I walked to a near by corner caffee... The evening weather was mild in Batu Pahat... And I felt I am ready to walk around after being quite annoyingly tied to the bed. When there, I enjoyed some kaya bread and jasmine tea, which were delicious, and just soaked in the whole image: A busy junction, congested traffic and few pedestrians passing by, probably on their way home... As always, I was the only white guy around there...

Monday, January 5, 2009

Malaysian public toilet

Something that's different in Malaysia

It seems as if this typical Malaysian public toilet and me won't become good friends any time soon. I just can't seem to have any courage to give it a try. I rather wait till I come back 'home'. Would you become good friends with her? It?

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Why I love Lee Hyori!

All about Hyori through my eyes
Lee Hyori (Korean 이효리, pronounced "E You Ree") is currently, and has been called for many years before, the Queen of Korean pop. She's born on May 10, 1979 in Cheongwon, a small city located in central South Korea. At age 19, in 1998 Hyori made a major step by joining a Korean girl group Fin K.L., who was extremely successful. Hyori was already outstanding in that time, her talents were noticed by many critics. In 2003 the group split up, although not officially. Some girls started to release their own albums, Hyori was among them. That's where Hyori's rise to fame has begun!1

HYORI AND I: I started to listen to Hyori in 2008, when she released one of her top hits U-Go-Girl. I remember watching Arirang, the Korean TV channel, that broadcasts outside of Korea, in English. They have a show called Pops in Seoul, where they show all the current top hits from Korea. When I saw that video, I was totally captivated. Not only was the song catchy, but Hyori looked so sexy, I thought she's out of this world. After I've seen that video, I started to google info about her, listen to some of her older songs and I was like: Wow, this girl can sing. And that's how I started to listen to her, I've become a fan. Although I admire her as an artist and I'm also a big fan of her radiant beauty (hey, I'm just a man after all), I'm still reasonable and don't take my admiration too far into some kind of creepy obsession. I love my girlfriend and Hyori will never replace her. I remember my girl once asking me, if I had a chance of spending a night with Hyori (in the case Hyori would want it, lol), would I sleep with her? I said no in an instant. Not even in theory I would betray my girl, even if she'd permit me. No way. Would you? (Women and their theoretical questions... sheesh... :-P)

HYORI'S BEST OF: Here's a list of my favorite songs from Hyori. If you're a fan, you know what I'm talking about. Let's start from 2003, from her first Album Stylish E. Hey Girl and 10 Minutes rock my world from the first album, but I also love Do Me and One Two Thre N'Four. From 2004-2005 I love Cleopatra and Together (this one especially is one of my all time favs) and of course AnyMotion, AnyStar and AnyClub. I really love the videos to the latter 3 songs, Hyori acts amazingly well. Then came 2006 and her second album Dark Angel. I love Get Ya and the video to the song. Woohoo, she's looks hot, although the style is not my favorite. I like Straight Up (and the video is lovely), Winter Freshness and EMMM. Then came 2007 and Toc Toc Toc, also one of Hyori's all time greatest songs. I love this one, too. In 2008 came It's Hyorish, a great album, where I truly love every song. And she also wrote some of the songs herself. I think U-Go-Girl will always remain my no 1, because that's how I noticed her. A special mention deserve the songs Unrivaled Lee Hyori, Lesson, A Barbershop's Daughter, PPP and My Life. Then came 2010 and I was so lucky to get her new awesome album H.Logic during my trip to Seoul. I love all the songs, it's really her best album so far. And the best songs are Scandal, Highlight and Get 2 Know, well, Chitty Chitty Bang Bang is not bad either and deserves to be mentioned. Hyori is rightfully the Queen of Kpop and for me the best Korean female artist there is. It'll need years for someone to replace her. Hope that doesn't happen soon.

THAT'S WHY I LOVE HYORI, TOO: Here are some of my favorite photos of her.

Hyori is simply beautiful.

But she can also be very sexy.

The photo shoots she makes are always top notch.

She is a woman desired by millions of men.

So many dream of kissing her lips.

She has the cutest smile, a smile you'll hardly forget.

Hyori rocks commercials. She's desired by many companies.

Hyori is glamorous and womanly. She'll captivate you with her female grace.

Hyori is sexy in the small things she does. That look. Isn't it magnificent?

She has some of the hottest legs of Korea. And that's really a statement.

Hyori is a model and performer. Whatever she does is always the best.

Hyori is simply Perfection.

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